so we pretty much are used to listing ourselves as cal and ray in the phone book. it would confuse a lot of people who thought it was a different kind of living arrangement, and they'd leave me alone. >> you say in the last paragraph "this sure beats subways in new york at 2:00 in the morning and cream cheese and walnut sandwiches on the whole wheat raisin bread at 'chock full of nuts' because we couldn't afford anything else, doesn't it? thanks for believing in me and >> when i was in the army withad television in 1965 and '66, i was stationed in new york. subway was ten cents then, which seems ancient history ent gasoline to a lot of people. but we had a lot of fun, except that we couldn't afford to do anything, so i considered a luxury lunch going out to 'chock full of nuts'-- i think there's still a few of them left in new th too-reamhee and are long walnut sandwich on whole wheat raisin bread. so a few years ago-- now that i'm considered by some people successful-- we were inew york and went by one of those places, and said, "hey, let's go in here for lunch."